“When mistrust comes in, love goes out.”

“To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved.”
Just a few days back i came across this facet of life which actually shook me from my foundation of thoughts that trust is something that should be the base of any relatioship. Once broken gone foreever and just that moment u dont ever want to go through ever in life. Loosing someone you love just that there was some stupid misunderstanding between both of you.Real trust is very uncommon. The true meaning of trust can only be found when individuals willingly enter a state of mind that will allow trust to blossom or mature. There are many levels of trust and all of these levels can be achieved by creating a euphoric, blissful, non static, barrier free state of mind. This level cannot be forced, it has to be searched out in the mind of each individual and the path has to be taken by the individual alone. Someone who has been there can help with the journey but it is still a journey that must be taken alone. Trust cannot become an entity unto it's own without truth being part of trust. For any relationship to be trustful, truth must be part of it. Part truth will only create part trust. This is where barriers are thrown up to disguise the truth which in turn disguises trust. It seems to be human nature to throw up barriers to the truth. Usually it is the perception that the real truth can be used later for bargaining or to inflict an insult upon another person. Also, secrets are kept back behind barriers in the trust. A secret may keep the individual from getting into a self destructive relationship with the person whom you are shielding the truth from.
A came across this nice poem some days back ... It really tells what i felt .... and what i want to say ...
You hold your breath as I leave the room
I see the worry lines in your brow
I’ve caught you watching me as I sleep
Do you think I’ll disappear somehow?

My love for you is strong,
dependable and true
what will it take to demonstrate
that I’ll always be here for you.

There may be times I must go,
must sometimes leave your side
but I will never leave your
in there my trust will abide.

Darling, I give to you my heart
and fiercely will I ever shout
I love you and hope that I
can heal your wounds of doubt.